It’s been a while since I last blogged—time really does fly. Before we know it, a whole year has passed. So much has changed, yet somehow, it feels like nothing has changed at all. I’ve been navigating life as a working single mother of three, steadily moving toward independence and sovereignty by designing my life on my own terms.
Looking back at everything I’ve learned, it all comes down to one key thing: belief. Belief in myself. It’s taken me a long time to get here. For most of my life, I made decisions based on what felt right or what seemed logical, more driven by reason than faith. But now, I’ve reached a point where belief isn’t just important—it’s essential. I need to believe in myself when I make that phone call, when I tell myself I am wealthy, I am love, and I am deserving.
Of course, there are still those limiting beliefs that whisper otherwise, and it’s up to me to transform them into affirmations that align with what I truly want. How many of you feel the same way?
We often hold ourselves back because of things others have told us, deeply ingrained patterns, or even the unintentional “curses” we place on ourselves with our own words.
It all starts with mindset. What have you been telling yourself? I’m learning to change those old lies, one by one, and build a belief system that resonates deeply within my soul. And then, I feed those beliefs with LOVE—because LOVE is the purest, most powerful frequency there is.
For those of you who are ready for the change, here are some actionaable steps below:
1. Start with Self-Belief:
Action: Practice affirmations daily, such as “I am worthy,” “I am deserving,” or “I am capable.” Write them down and say them aloud to reinforce a positive mindset.
Why: This shifts your mental focus from doubts and insecurities to a place of self-empowerment.
2. Identify and Challenge Limiting Beliefs:
Action: Reflect on the negative thoughts or beliefs that hold you back. Write down any limiting beliefs (e.g., "I'm not good enough," "I can’t succeed") and challenge their validity. Replace them with positive affirmations.
Why: Recognizing and addressing limiting beliefs helps break free from self-sabotage and paves the way for growth.
3. Shift from Logic to Faith:
Action: Trust in your ability to succeed even when things don’t make sense logically. Take small steps toward a goal without needing every detail to be perfect.
Why: Sometimes, stepping outside of what feels “logical” and embracing faith opens doors for unexpected opportunities and growth.
4. Feed Your Belief System with Love:
Action: Practice self-love by taking time for self-care, speaking kindly to yourself, and surrounding yourself with supportive people who uplift your growth.
Why: LOVE is described as the most powerful frequency—it nurtures positive changes and strengthens self-worth.
5. Change Your Internal Dialogue:
Action: Pay attention to the thoughts you say to yourself. When you catch negative or limiting thoughts, replace them with something empowering. For example, switch “I’m not good enough” to “I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to.”
Why: This rewires the brain, reinforcing positive beliefs and removing mental blocks.
6. Embrace Personal Accountability:
Action: Take responsibility for your choices and actions. If you find yourself repeating negative thought patterns, commit to changing them one step at a time.
Why: Personal accountability builds confidence and fosters a sense of control over your life and decisions.
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